I wanted to talk about the fact that you can't give something you don't have. The
title of this blog is you can't give somebody or you can't give something that
you don't have.
One of my favourite quotes is if you can't help the poor, if you're one of them. And money doesn't buy happiness, but it's much more comfortable to cry in a Mercedes than on a bicycle. When it comes to talking about money, of course it's clear, if you don't have the money, you can't give it to somebody. To have a notion that money is the root of all evil, or the money makes you a bad person is a complete nonsense. Because if you don't have the money, how can you donate to charity?
If you don't have money, how can you build that orphanage? If you don't have the money, how can you give to church? If you don't have money, how can you help your sick relatives or somebody who just lost the job? You can't because you're broke yourself. Of course, you can't help somebody if you don't have how to help. That's why you should first of all, help yourself, make some money, then you can impact lots of different causes. But it doesn't really just end with money.
It actually applies to many other different things as well, because you can't give love to somebody if you don't have love. You can't help somebody to become brave or more confident if you lack confidence. It's works on all different levels. And it actually is associated with many different things in your life. So in order for you to inspire somebody, in order for you to show somebody that it's possible to be done, you have to be brave enough to do that first of all. In order for you to receive love, or in order for you to give love, you first need to receive it as well. And like before you go, “Oh, that's clear. Nobody loves me. I can't love anybody else.” That's not what I'm talking about.
I'm talking about you loving yourself first of all, because if you don't love yourself, if you keep looking for bad things about you, if you keep looking for your flaws in you, if you keep beating yourself down, how on earth could you love another person if you don't even love yourself?
It’s all connected, and it's all so, so, so important. That's why the biggest investment you can do is investment in yourself, is to constantly be growing yourself. You see, the richest people in the world, the most advanced people in the world, the people who achieve the biggest things, these are the first people to ask for help.
These are the first people to buy books, to go to seminars, to listen to audio books and all of that, why? They’re already rich, they're already successful, they know that you have to be asking for help all the time, because you can't be best at everything. That's what you should be doing personal development every single day, read, few pages of a good book every single day. You cannot imagine how it will start impacting your life. That’s one.
And also, what most unsuccessful people do, they only ask for help when there's something wrong. If they feel sick, that's when they go to a doctor. If they feel depressed, that's when they go to psychiatrists, but if they feel okay, they don't go to a doctor, they got don't go to psychiatrists. Now you might be going, “Well, of course not. Why would you go?”
Well, that's why you're stuck where you are, because what successful people do, what the richest people in the world do, if they feel good, they go to the doctor and they say, “I want to feel great. How can you make me feel great?” If they feel stable and sound psychologically, they go to a psychologist and say, “I want you to make me feel great. I want you to make me peak performance. I want to achieve huge things.” They ask for help, not when it's bad, they ask for help when it's good to make it even better.
You see, most people they don't listen to when the body is whispering, that's why their body starts shouting, that's when they hear. When they get a heart attack, they go to a hospital, now they’re listening, now they heard their body, but when their body was aching before, when they were getting out of becoming overweight, they were not listening to their body, their body was already starting to whisper saying, “Hey, you need to start looking after me.” But they ignore that. Then the heart attack, now they start listening to it.
Same with psychological help, most people, when their body is whispering saying, “Hey, I'm feeling a bit down and I need to achieve something, I need to look for something bigger.” They ignore that, they just, “Ah, watch some Telly or whatever.” Then when they get into depression, when they get into burnout, when they can't go to work anymore because they completely lost the plot, now they go, “Oh, I need help.”
Now that's already shouting, your mind is already shouting for help, but it was whispering before. So listen to when your body and mind is whispering and start achieving, start improving, start increasing the health, the mindset, the psychology and that will help you to live a life like you can imagine. And once you got those things inside, once you charge your body, now you can give it to others. Now you have energy to give to others, now you have passion to give to others, now you have the excitement, the confidence, everything to give to others because you have it in your own body, you have it in your own mind.
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