Who believes in you?
I want to talk about the belief in you. So who believes in you?
I want to
talk about the belief and the fact that sometimes we don't know our own
potential. You see somebody I was listening to this audiobook and it was
interesting the way they said it. They said you can't see your own eyes without
a mirror. You can look through your eyes, but you can't see your own eyes; only
other people can see your eyes.
Well,
something similar sometimes is happening with the value, with your worth.
However you are and very often, we don't see our own worth, but somebody else
can really see our worth, somebody else can really see our potential. I know I
was that person. When I first started in home based business in network
marketing, I never thought I would be a speaker. I never thought I would be a
trainer. I never thought I could have a team of thousands of people. I never
thought I could be making money in my sleep. I could be traveling the world and
doing all of that stuff. I never thought that could happen to me. I thought
that’s maybe for other people, but definitely not to me.
But I had people
around me, who believed in me, who said you can do it? I believe in you. I
think you could do this. I think you could be great etc. When you're getting started
in a business or in a venture, people always say, believe in yourself. Just
believe in yourself. Just you have to believe in yourself. But that's not where
it starts very often. For most people, unfortunately, they don't believe in
themselves. They don't believe that they can become successful. They don't
believe that they can achieve tremendous results. They just don't believe it
and saying to that person, just believe in yourself doesn't really help, doesn't
really help because it works actually other way around. Saying to somebody
believe in yourself, doesn't work because it usually starts the other way
around.
Step
number one is somebody else believes in you. For many people, including myself,
I first needed somebody else to believe in me before I started believing in
myself. So step number one is somebody else believes in you. Step number two,
you believe someone. So they believe in you and now you start believing them
because they start saying to you, hey, you can do this thing. Hey, you can achieve
it. You can get tremendous results. I believe in you. I think you could be a
leader. I think you could be a speaker. And you start thinking, maybe I can, maybe
this can happen to me. Maybe I could do this thing. Maybe I could become
successful too.
So first, somebody believes in you. Second, you believe in them
and only then the third; you start believing in yourself. Because I say you
know what? I'm not so bad. You know what? I can do this thing. I can crush this
thing. Now. If I say, “Huh, Gediminas, love it.” Now you gave me an excuse because
now I don't have to do anything because I don't have anybody who believes in
me. Stop it. Stop it.
This
cannot become your excuse that, “Oh, that's why I'm not successful. I don't
have anybody who believes in me.” No. You need to find somebody who will
believe in you. And we are in a uniquely amazing industry. In network marketing
you cannot be in this business without somebody believing in you. Because your
sponsor, your mentor, your upline leadership will all believe in you, will all
trust in you, will all invest their time in you to help you become successful
in the business. So you have plenty of people who believe in you. Just you need
to stop believing in them. You need to start accepting that belief, you need to
start accepting those compliments because some of you are really hard. Like, we
give you a compliment and go, “Oh, no, I'm no great. I'm not great.”
No, you're
amazing. I'm not amazing. Like you're rejecting these compliments, you’re rejecting
this belief from other people. Stop it. Just take it on board. Just trust. If
somebody says to you, “Hey, I think you could be amazing. I think you could be
an incredible leader. I think you could rule this territory with this
business.” Just accept it. It's a compliment. Take it right. What's the worst
that can happen? You'll become successful. Ah, what a shame. You became
successful and made a lot of money. Wow. Let it happen. Let it happen.
Take
that belief, accept it. You have people around you, rooting for you. You have
people around you supporting you, wanting you just succeed. Do it. Accept it.
Stop stopping yourself. Stop looking for barriers! Stop putting yourself down
and saying, “Oh, no, no, no, no, no, I couldn't do it. No, no, no, I couldn’t do
it.” Just go for it. Just say yes. See what happens. If it doesn't work out,
try something else. If it doesn't work out, try something else.
If it doesn't
work, try something else. How many times will you try something else? Until it works
out until you get result, that's all. That's my wish for you, my friend. I
believe in you. If nobody else believes in you, I believe in you. You have
greatness inside of you. You have your DNA inside of you has the biggest leaders
in the world, the Kings, the conquers, the Gandhi's of this world, the most
successful people. It's all in your DNA. It's all in the past generations. You
have the greatest inside of you. Go show it to the rest of the world. I believe
in you.
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Yours
in success
Gediminas.
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