What to do if you were GHOSTED on social media?

Posted by Gediminas Grinevicius on Thursday, February 13, 2020 Under: Personal Development

This topic is about being ghosted. So what is being ghosted?

Well, being ghosted is when you message somebody and they seen your message and they don't reply to you? That's being ghosted. So, if that ever happens to you, especially if you’re reaching out to somebody about the business and you ask them if they would be open. And they see your message and they don't respond, there's few things you can do, but I'm going to give you a quick script that I've learned recently from amazing guy called Fraser Brooks, somebody some of you know, Fraser, and I really loved how he approached that. Let’s say you reached out to somebody, and maybe it's the first message, maybe it's after a couple of messages you reached out to somebody about the business and they never respond to you, this is what you can send to them.

You can just say, “Hey, Bob, I noticed you went quiet on me. Maybe you're not interested or timing is wrong right now, but if you could let me know, I would appreciate it.” So it's again, it's being super direct. It's being super open. It's not trying to manipulate them or whatever. If you say, “Hey, man, I've noticed that you've been quiet you haven't responded to me. Maybe you're not interested or maybe the timing is not right for you. Anyway, I would appreciate if you let me know.”

Now, a lot of the times when you send somebody a message like that, they say, “Oh sorry, sorry. I was super busy. I am interested. I did see the information, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.” And it will just restart from there. So you know sometimes you do what Tony Robbins calls mind reading, where you say, “Oh he's ignoring me, she doesn't like me,” and you’re just mind reading, you’re just creating stories in your head that are not real, but you are making them up.

So instead of making stuff up, why not ask a person, “Hey, I noticed that you saw my message, but you didn't respond. I just wanted to check if you're interested. It's totally cool, but just let me know and I can move on and I won't bother you.” You know what I mean? So it’s a super, super, super effective way. And if you send this message to people who've ghosted you who have responded to your message, I promise a lot of those people will respond back saying, “Yeah, you know what? Yeah, it's just not the right thing for me,” or they'll say, “Hey, sorry, I was super busy. I am interested, you know, I have watched information blah, blah, blah,” and you can just take it from there, you know what I mean?

So it's a very, very effective way. So I hope you found it valuable. Write it down somewhere, save it in your notes. So this way you can share it and you can use it when you’re messaging people on social media.

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