We are born UNIQUE but many die as COPIES
I want to talk about being unique or being original and being a copy. The
title of the blog today is we are all born unique, but many of us die as
copies.
And I suppose nowadays it's even easier than it used to be because of
all the social media. Before you would only see people in your circle, you’d
only see your friends, your family, your work colleagues, but now you see the
entire world. You take your phone you go down to Facebook or Instagram or any
of the other social medias and guess what? You see the entire world, you see
everybody, so you see what everybody's wearing, what everybody's saying, what
everybody's buying.
And
what happens is that slowly but steadily, we lose our own uniqueness because we
see, “Oh, Adele is doing that and she's popular. So I have to do that too. I see
that Evelina is doing that and she's getting a lot of likes, so I have to do
that too.” And slowly, slowly, we all become copies of other people. We all
become copies of celebrities or thought leaders and things like that. And don't
get me wrong. There's nothing wrong to learn from other people. There's nothing
wrong to study other people, but you have to have your own style. Like the good
old Jim Rohn used to say, “Be a student, but not a follower. Be a student, but
not a follower.”
What does that even mean? Be a student but not a follower?
Well, he says, “Look, what if you read one book, and that book says, if you do
this, you're going to die young. But then you read another book and say, if you
do exactly the same thing, you're going to live forever.” What do you do then?
Jim
Rohn used to say, “Read both books and make up your own mind.” Become your own
person, have your own opinion instead of just following blindly something,
instead of accepting something without even considering it?
Have your own
opinion. Have your own idea. So there's nothing wrong to study from other
people. There is nothing wrong to model even other people who do the behaviour
or get the results that you want to get. But you have to be yourself. You can't
just be another person. One of my favourite quotes that I saw said, “If I will
be like everybody, who's going to be like me? If I will be like everybody,
who's going to be like me?” And the answer is no one. So you have to be like
you because otherwise, we won't have you in the world, we'll just have copies of
somebody else.
Whether
we’re talking about family life, whether we're talking about business, whether
we're talking about social media, or whatever else, you have to maintain some
sort of your own uniqueness. And don't be scared, because very often, when you
try to be unique, when you try to be yourself, guess what's going to happen?
You're going to get criticized. You're going to get criticized by people who
say, “Well, why are you like that? Why are you being different? Why aren't you
like everybody else?” So there's a big chance that when you try to be unique,
when you try to be yourself, you'll get criticized. They'll say, “Oh, he has a
stupid laugh.” They'll say, “Oh, he has a stupid Red Hat.” Or whatever else.
When
you try to be yourself most often, you won't be accepted very often because
everybody wants everybody else to be like them. When you're different, you
might get a bit criticized, but you have to look past that. You have to go past
that because if you stick to it, if you stand your own ground, if you keep your
uniqueness, if you keep your personality, eventually, that's what you will be
known for. That's why people will start following you.
That's why people will start
copying you then because they'll say, “Well, that person is unique. They're not
like everybody else. They're not saying what everybody else is saying. They're
not agreeing with everything that everybody else is agreeing. They actually
have their own little style. So that's my recommendation for you guys anyways,
especially on social media. If you want to have a different result, if you want
to stand out, you have to sometimes be yourself. You have to sometimes be
different even if that means not being liked by everybody. That's okay too, but
just be yourself.
That’s my
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Yours in
success
Gediminas.
In : Personal Development
Tags: be original and be yourself