The 7 levels of WHY
I
want to talk about the seven levels of why.
Very often when you talk to your
potential business partner, of course, you should ask them, “Hey, why do you
want to do this thing? Why are you looking for an extra income right now? Why
are you looking to build your home based business?”
But very often the first
answer they will give you, it's a superficial answer, which means it's near the
surface. It's not really a deep reason; not really, their dream and ambition,
they just going to give you something that they expect you want to hear. You
ask them, “Why do you want to build this business?” And they'll say, “Well, to
make some extra income.” It's an easy answer. It's not very personal. But most
people will go, “Okay, cool. Let's sign you up.”
But
that's really not the real reason. And if you really want to make a connection with
your new business partner, if you really want to understand them and get them,
you have to dig deeper, and if you're doing some coaching with somebody, it's
always the main reasons are much deeper, that's why there's a thing called
seven levels of why; where you go, “Well, why do you want to build this home
based business?” And they go, “Well, to make some extra income.” And you go, “Well,
why do you need extra income?” “Well, because I want to maybe travel more.” “Well,
why do you want to travel more?” “Well, because when I was little, when I was a
kid, we were very poor, and we didn't get to travel.” “Okay, so why is that
important to you?” And you keep digging deeper, until like, 3, 4, 5, 6 levels
down you’ll hear the deeper reasons, where maybe they want to make a better
life for their kids, maybe they want to prove something to somebody; you get to
the real core reasons of that person. And when you really dig deep, you
actually get to know that person much better.
Now,
you don't just have that superficial reason, “Oh, I want to make some extra
income, oh my new team member wants to make some extra income.” No, you go a
lot deeper to where you understand how this person thinks, what motivates this
person, what drives this person that is so much more powerful. Try next time
you recruit somebody in your business, ask them this few more times and it's comfortable
to go, why, and dig deeper to find out the real reasons why they want to do
your business. You'll see you'll learn some very interesting things about your
prospects.
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Gediminas.
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