Success Is A Way Of Life - Not A Destination

I want to talk about support, and the fact that you should stop requiring it.



Many times I hear people saying, “Oh, I would love to succeed in network marketing, but my spouse is not supporting me, my wife or my husband is not supporting me. I'd love to get great results, but my friends and family are not supporting me. I'd love to get great results in the business, but this person and that person is not supporting me.” What does that have to do with you succeeding? What does that have to do with you achieving your goals? Exactly nothing.

I've known loads of people who've succeeded without any support, who succeeded without having other people cheering them on. If your friends, family, other half are supporting you, awesome. That's a bonus. But that's not required. That's not a must for you to succeed. A lot more important than support of other people is your hunger and determination. How hungry are you to get those dreams and make them into reality? How hungry are you to reach your goals? How determined are you? How prepared are you to work and put in the work? That's a lot more important? Because a lot of people use that support as an excuse. As an excuse to say, “Ah, I would do it, but I don't have the support. I will do it, but the weather is not good. It's raining outside. Oh, I can't.” That's just an excuse.

And vice versa on the other side, I know loads of people who have their husbands, their wife clapping and cheering on, “Go, go, go honey, I believe in you, I support you.” And they still don't do anything. And they still get no results, because that's not required. It doesn't make any difference most of the time. A lot more important is the drive inside of you. How hungry are you to change your life? How hungry are you to give better life to your children? How hungry are you about achieving those things? That's a lot more important than somebody support. You can achieve and build a tremendous business without any friends, without any family, without any people who you know right now getting involved in your business, you could build an entire team with complete strangers. And thousands of people have done that. You don't need any support.

And like Fraser Brooks, having said that, your friends and family will not support you until they see strangers celebrate you. Your friends and family will not support you until they see strangers celebrate you. But guess what, in order for strangers to celebrate you, you have to get off your ass and do some work. You have to roll up the sleeves and go do the damn work, do the presentation, speak to people, send the messages, do the lives, do everything that needs to be done in order for you to get the results. Then you will get the support. And when you start making 5000 a month, then your second half will say, “Actually, this little business of yours is not that bad.”

When you start making 10,000 a month, they'll say, “Woo, honey, oh, keep going. You're doing really well.” When you start making 20 30,000 a month, they'll start attending every single presentation and event that's happening. When you start making 50,000 a month, they'll be carrying your handbag, and they'll be like, “Oh, shall I bring you some coffee? Do you want a toffee latte? Do you want something? I'll just run in and help you out. You just do what do you do.” You'll get all the support and all the cheering when you're crushing in it.

Stop waiting for that support in order for you to start doing the work. No, work comes first, then comes the recognition, then comes the support, then comes the cheers and everything. And guess what? When you first start, everybody will call you crazy. When you get the results and you become successful. Everybody will call you lucky. At no point people will say, “Well done, you really worked hard and you deserve the success you have.” Nobody will ever say that. At the beginning they’ll say, “It’s is never going to work out. It's a pyramid scheme. Oh, it's a cult. It's a sect.” That's what they're going to say. Then when you crush it, when you have tremendous results, when you’re making all the money, you’re travelling the world, driving luxury cars, they’ll say, “Oh, you're so lucky. You're so lucky you got in first. You're so lucky because you're so smart, because you're so beautiful.” They never will recognize it. It's okay. It's okay. It doesn't matter. Just go do what you need to do.

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Yours in success

Gediminas.