STOP ✋ requiring SUPPORT 🧸
I want to talk about support. In this blog, I wanted to talk to you guys
about requiring support.
So, when you start your home based business, when you
start your network marketing business, you may want to have support, support of
your family, support of your friends, support of your work colleagues and so
on, but that's not required. You don't have to have support in order to become
successful in your home based business. And if you are hindering your success,
on the support that you will receive from other people, you're most likely
going to fail.
So the reality is that you don't need to have support of other
people in order for you to succeed. I love this quote that Eric Wore shared
when I was attending his training in Las Vegas, he said that your friends and
family will not support you until they see strangers celebrate you. That's
important to understand. Your friends and family will not support you until
they see strangers celebrate you. So sometimes you actually just have to go out
and crush it and get great results and then when your leaders, when your team
members start celebrating you on social media, start recognizing you at events,
that's when your friends and family will start taking you seriously.
Why?
Because you can't be a prophet in your own town. Usually the people who are
closest to us, they believe the least to us and it's just the way it happens.
That's how the world is set out and I'd love to change that but you just can't
change it. But there's so many people who requires support, like, “Oh, if my
husband is not going to support me, if my wife is not going to support me then I
can’t become successful.” And hey, it's going to be rough for you to become
successful.
And sometimes it is your own making. What do I mean by that? Is
that probably you had support in the first 17 companies that you've joined, but
then at some point, your partner or significant other or the family goes, “Hey,
just give it a break. How many of these are you going to join? How many times
do we need to see you trying to sell something to us and trying to recruit us
into something before like you give it a break?”
Sometimes it's our own fault, because we were not working hard enough in the
business that we were doing, because we didn't put the effort and the time and
the commitment that we were supposed to put in our business, then we keep
letting ourselves down and everybody around us until they go, “Hey, this is
just costing money. This is just becoming ridiculous because you're just
jumping from one to another and you're not getting any success.”
So if you want
support, just start producing results, just start making money. And very
quickly, you'll start getting supportive everybody. You start taking your
significant other on the incentive trips; five star holidays, you start getting
Mercedes cars, you start rolling in the money 1000, 2000, 3000, 4000 a month
into your home budget from your business, guess what, your family, your
friends, your colleagues will become super supportive all of a sudden for some
reason, right?
Why? Because they see that you're taking it seriously for once,
you know what I mean? So most likely, if you're not getting support from people
around you, is because you're not providing results. You're not proving that
you're serious about this thing. You're not doing the actual work and they’re
going hey, you just kidding yourself and everybody around you, you just got
yourself a hobby, you spending the money and you are not making it, you know
what I mean?
But in some cases, you might have an unsupportive spouse. You
know, you might be one of those unlucky people who, you know, you're really
trying to make this work, you're really working hard, and it's just your
significant other. Not only that, they're not supporting you, they are actually
ridiculing you, they are saying bad things about you, they're laughing at you,
and so on. And in that case, you might need to have, again, that conversation
because at the end of the day, we teach others how to treat us. You teach
others how to treat you.
Now, I know it might sound distasteful, you might not
like the taste of this, you know, because that's your responsibility. But at
the end of the day, you are teaching others how to treat you if others are
treating you like shit probably you allowed them to treat you like shit before
and that's why they carried on right because if you let people know that that
behaviour or that type of relationship is not going to be accepted, then the
person is not going to carry on doing it. They're not going to carry on
treating you like that. But sometimes because you allow them to do it once you
allow them to do twice, you allow them to do it three times, then they feel
like it's okay to treat you like crap.
Like it's okay to ridicule you, like
it's okay to laugh at you. So you might want to have that conversation where
you speak to your significant others or very close family members who support
you would really appreciate and you might want to speak to them and say, “Look,
I don't really need you to support me in this, I don't need you to buy anything
from me. I don't need you to join my business. But what I need you to do is not
sabotage me. I need you to stop criticizing me. I need you to stop putting blocks
on my road. I need you to stop saying bad things in front of other people about
me or my business or my product because that is actually sabotaging my success
that is actually preventing me from achieving success and if you respect our
marriage or you respect our relationship, then you will, you will do that for
me.
I don't need you to support me, I don't need you to help me in this
business but at least don't sabotage me, don't make it harder for me to achieve
the success, because that is just showing disrespect.” And have that real
conversation with the person because you might have chickened out of this
conversation before and they just assumed that it's okay to pick on you. It's
okay to bully you. It's okay to ridicule you. So you might want to have that
conversation. I had to have that conversation earlier on in my network
marketing career, because I said, hey with the family like you, I don't need
enemies. I'm kidding, right? I love my family, and I love my parents and my
brother and everybody, but it's just sometimes they don't get it that little
remarks or something that can really hurt. You can really put your confidence
down, so sometimes you might need to have that conversation with your close
friends.
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Yours
in success
Gediminas.
In : Personal Development
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