Look for FRIENDS not distributors
We are with our Russian team, we were
actually doing a training zoom about social media and Facebook and how to build
your business and one of the things I mentioned is that when it comes to social
media instead of looking for customers and looking for business partners why
not look for friends?
Because if you were looking for friends would you
communicate in a different way than when you are looking for customers or
business partners? And if the answer is yes then you need to ask yourself why because
you should be very open, relaxed with no
agenda when you making a friend because if you were making a friend, you
wouldn't like use manipulating lines to make them your friend. You are either
friends with somebody or you not, it’s either they like you or they don’t. You
don't go like but let me convince you that I'm a really good friend and there
you go no, you don't do that. You don't try to convince people to be your
friends, you either click with them and you are friends or you don't click with
them and you are not friends. Why not use that type of philosophy in looking
for people on social media.
First, look for people that you actually click with
that you like that you have something to talk about and get to become friends
with them and then some of those friends will become your customers, business
partners and some of them won't become your customers or your business partners
but they will remain your friends which is also awesome. That's my advice for
your social media, if you want to expand your business on social media become
friends with people, be genuine, take the agenda away, don't have this
frequency that I have to recruit this person, I have to sell something to them.
Don't do that. Just relax. Just take it easy.
Just start talking to people like
you when you were actually wanting to talk to them, not just to sign them up
and make them into a number in your organization. Just chill out, relax, be
friendly, ask questions, as if you wanted to be friends with them, so what do
you do for a living? Do you have children? What are your hobbies and passions? What
are your ambitions in life? What are your dreams and please speak to people and
listen to them before pitching them your products, your business and you might
just find it quite interesting, much easier, a lot less pressure and no hidden
agenda, no manipulation just talking to people to make friends and some of
those friends will say, "Well, what do you do for a living?" And you say, "I help
people to make money from home," and they might go "Well, I'm interested in that.
Tell me more about it."And then it's natural, easy as if you are just talking to
somebody and it comes out of the conversation and it's very no salesman alarm
no nothing is just normal conversation.
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Yours in success
Gediminas.
In : Personal Development
Tags: becoming friends with people first