I wanted to talk about killing a monster. This is going to be important. So the
title of this blog is, kill the monster while it's a baby. No, no, no, no, no,
no, I'm not talking about killing your babies. Calm down, calm down. It's
something else. And it basically it applies to your relationships as well as it
applies to your business. And what does it basically mean?
It means you need to act on negative toxic bad situations when they start appearing in your business or when they start appearing in your relationships instead of just waiting because that monster is just going to grow. If you are married or if you're in a relationship with somebody else, you have these little things that will happen in your relationship where you get upset about them doing something or saying something or they get upset with you doing something or saying something and unless you attack it, unless you address this in your relationship or if it's your business partner, again, unless you address that negative situation developing in your business, it’s just going to grow and grow and grow and grow and it's never going to go away, it’s just going to explode one day.
In personal relationships when people are married, if they suppress these negative feelings, if they suppress these issues and they don't address them, they don't talk about it, it just keeps growing and growing and growing and growing until one day it explodes and then they're just, “It's a nightmare, it’s like a massive Rao.” And it may be even end the relationship, it ends up with a divorce or things like that. And in business, it works the same way.
If you start having something negative in your business, something in your team that maybe some people fighting against the chain or maybe there's some backbiting or maybe there's some rumours being spread, maybe there's some negativity between people, maybe this is animosity between leaders and teams, etcetera, if you let it carry on hoping that it will just get away, hoping that it will die out, you’re making big mistake If you let this negative situation to carry on, is just going to keep growing and growing and growing and growing until it can actually really damage your business, until it can really cause some problems for you, your company, maybe your team.
So again, if you see people are doing bad practices, if you see people saying lies, if you see people doing things that are not ethical or even illegal and things like that, and sometimes you might just be one person in your whole team and you might think, “Well everybody's okay, it's just this one person.” You need to address it, you need to attack it, you need to kill it while it's small, while it's a baby, because if you let it grow, that one person can turn into two people, into five people into 10 people and before you know it, you have a full blown genocide happening in your team, the full blown problem.
So you want to address it as soon as possible. I saw this quote, and I really loved it. And the quote said, wrong is wrong, even if everybody's doing it, and right is right, even if no one is doing it. So your integrity, your ethics, your values, your virtues will play a big role in how you lead your team, in how you grow your business. It will play a big role and that's where you will see that smoke. You know, it's like a smoke in your house. If you were sitting in your living room and you started seeing some smoke coming out of the plug socket. Would you just leave it saying, “Well, it's not on fire yet. It's okay. Let's just wait and see what happens.” And wait until the full blown fire starts only then you go and get your extinguisher or would you straight away jump on it? You go, “Oh my Gosh, there’s smoke. Let's quickly get on to this. Let's solve the situation.” You wouldn't wait until the fire started coming out of your wall you would attack it right away, will same in your business.
If there's some negativity, if there's some backbiting, if there's some rumors being spread and things like that, you that's the smoke. As soon as you heard about it, as soon as you find out that somebody is doing that, that's the smoke coming out and if you leave it, saying, “Ah I'll deal with this later on, maybe it’ll go away. Maybe nobody saw that.” If you leave it, you will get a full blown fire, and then you won't be able to deal with it by yourself anymore, then you will need to get other leaders involved and you will need the company involved. So that's the point of my this blog post, guys.
So whether it's your business, or whether it's your personal relationships with your children, with your spouse, address things right away, if there's something was said, or there was something done in your family, in your relationship, that you're not happy about, address it right away. Don't start resenting that person, don't start hating them without them even knowing because, again, one of my favorite quotes of all time is by Nelson Mandela. And he said that; feeling resentment, it's same like drinking poison and hoping that your enemy dies. It never works, right?
So same thing this there's probably one of the most useless emotions is feeling resentment against somebody else, because they don't even freaking know it. So instead, sit down with that person go, look, I've got this issue i wanted to i know you probably didn't want to upset me, I know you probably didn't want to make me feel that way. But this is what happened. I want to talk to you about this, right? I'm sure you're better than this. And I'm sure this is just a misunderstanding. But I wanted to get this out of the way and I wanted and 99 times out of 100 you will sort it out and the relationship will just become stronger because of that and you'll be easier to communicate but if you keep it if you boil, water down, bottle it down, bottle it down, is just a ticking time bomb before it explodes and then it can cause a lot more damage.
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In : Personal Development
Tags: remove the bad emotions and things in your life and business while it's not too late