Is your EGO stopping you from success?
Is
your ego stopping you from achieving success? Now, a lot of you probably think,
“Well, I don't have a big ego, I'm not an ego person." But let me explain to you what is ego?
Ego is when you think you know,
something, but your results prove otherwise? Let me repeat. Ego is when you
think you know, something, but your results prove otherwise. So, I don't know
how many people I've lost the count of how many people I met, especially in the
business Arena in network marketing, in home based business who would say, “Well,
I've read that book already. Oh, I've been to that trading already. Well, I
know all of this already.” But they're not getting results. They're not making
the money. So do they really know it or they just been to the training? They
just read the book.
So
there's a big difference between knowing and actually knowing. So I've met so
many people who go, “Well, yeah, you know, I know all of this stuff. I've been
to these training already. I've heard all of this before.” So why the heck are
you not succeeding then? Why the heck are you not making the money? Why the
heck are you not recruiting people? Why the heck are you not already successful
person, if you know it already? Maybe you don't freaking know it, that's why you’re
not receiving results. That's why you're not succeeding. That's why you’re not making
money.
So just because you been to the training, it doesn't mean you know it,
you know it when you’re using it and you’re getting results from it. So
sometimes you have your mentors, or your leaders, or your sponsors, teach you
same thing over and over and over again and you're going to be like, “Oh my
God, why do they keep teaching the same thing? Oh, my God, why is it the same
training all the time?” Because you're not freaking doing it. That's why it's
the same training all the time, because when you start doing it, when you start
applying it, then your mentor or your sponsor or your leader will say, “Okay, now
we can move on to the next bit.”
So
the ego is very often stopping people from success because they think, “Oh, I
know everything already, I’ve been to this trainings, I understand how it
works. Yeah, whatever. It must be something else, they must be not telling me
some secret. There must be something.” And I've seen it so many times, somebody
comes and says, “Well, what's the secret? What do I need to do to become
successful in this business?” And you go, “Well, you need to do this, this,
this, this and this.” “Okay. But what is the secret?” Like, “I just told you
the secret, I just told you about the successful person does.” “Oh, yeah. But I
still want to ask a question. I still want to go in.”
Like, just do it. Just
apply what you just learned, right? But so many times you will see a person ask
you the question, you give them an answer and then they go to ask the next
person the same question. Why? Because they didn't like the answer they
received. So very often, people who are not getting results, they are looking
for the answer that they like. So when the answer is, “Hey, you need to roll up
the sleeves and work hard.” They go, “Oh, okay, okay, I'll go and somebody else.”
Because their ego is there and they cannot accept that it's not the company's
fault, it's not the products fault, it's not the government's fault, it's not
their parents fault, it's not their husband's fault, it's not their wives
fault, it's not the kids fault that they not successful, is their own freaking
fault. That's where responsibility comes in because we have to be responsible
for our life, we have to be responsible for our success or failure that is.
So
if you succeed, you're not going to succeed because of me, you're not going to
succeed because of the company, you're not going to succeed because of the book
you read, you're going to succeed because of you. And if you fail, same thing
applies. So but that's the question. That's the question. Is your ego stopping
you? Are you the person who knows it all? Because I work with some very, very
successful people and I learned from very, very successful people, and even
though they’re making tens of thousands or hundreds of thousands, and some of
them millions even a month, guess what they do? They're constantly growing, they're
constantly learning, they're constantly investing in themselves, they’re
constantly going to events, they’re constantly buying courses and books, why the heck? They already made the money, they already got a huge teams, they’re
already successful, why would they keep learning? Don't they know it all? Haven't
they heard of it already? And they had every training, they’re every conference
with a notebook taking notes. Stupid, isn't it? Maybe not.
You
know what they say, “Success leaves clues.” So watch what successful people do.
You will never ever, ever, ever hear a millionaire say, “I know all of that
already. I heard it all before.” You'll never hear them say that but you will
hear broke people say it all the time. “Oh, yeah, I read that book already. Oh,
yeah, I’ve been into that training already. Oh, yeah, I’ve seen that guy
before? Yeah, whatever, I know it all.” And they’re still broke. Hope you got
the point? That's my tip guys!
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Yours in success
Gediminas.
In : Personal Development
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