How to overcome SELF DOUBT?
Almost
inevitably, most people at some point, they will experience self doubt. So,
they’re trying to build their business, they’re trying to get results, but
there will be times when you're going to start doubting yourself, am I good
enough? Am I smart enough? Maybe this is not for me, maybe this is not going to
work out for me.
One type of doubt that usually people get is
self doubt where they start doubting themselves. The second type of doubt that
you might get is doubting your business, doubting your opportunity, doubting
your company. At some point, most people will lead a doubt themselves, or they
will doubt their company or their business, whether it's going to work out or
not. Now, it's almost inevitable, like I said that most people will get this.
So can you stop that doubt? And it's a bit like fear. It's very difficult to
get rid of fear. And actually, you don't want to get rid of fear. And everybody
feels fear and it's absolutely okay. The difference is what people do with that
fear?
Same
with doubt, can you stop doubting yourself? Probably not because when you're
having a bad day or a bad week or a bad month, or something happens that you
didn't expect, something negative happens in your business, it's almost natural
for you to feel down and go, “Oh, I don't know if this is going to work out,
maybe I'm just not cut out for this. Blah, blah, blah.” But what you can do is
change how you respond to that doubt. So when you feel that self doubt or
doubting your business, what you need to do is change, is condition yourself to
respond in a certain way.
Most people who are not successful when they start
doubting themselves, so their business, their response will be to stop working,
their response will be to get paralyzed by that doubt. So when everything is
going great, they're on fire, they’re building the business, they’re talking to
people, they’re showing the products, they’re showing the business, but when
things don't go as planned, when it's a bad day or a bad week, they start
doubting themselves and then they freeze. They stop talking to people, they
stop showing the products, they stop showing their business and they're just
paralyzed by this doubt that, “Oh, maybe this is not going to work out for me.
Maybe I'm not smart enough. Maybe whatever.”
They
start thinking these doubts. So what I would recommend you to do is what
successful people do. And instead, condition yourself. As soon as you start
feeling doubt, get in action, get into income producing activity. So pick up
the phone and start calling people, or go into social media and start messaging
people, or do whatever you do to grow your business right now. So whichever way
you’re finding customers, whichever way you're looking for team members do
that.
As soon as you start doubting yourself, as soon as you start doubting
your opportunity, go and start talking to people, go and get on the phone, go
and get on a computer, go and meet people and get in action. So every time you
catch yourself, “Oh, I'm doubting myself, I need to speak to somebody, I need
to show somebody my product, I need to show somebody my business,” and you know
what, if you do it every time you’re feeling doubt, if you do that, you will
condition your mind and body to respond in that way. So then every time as soon
as you have a quiver of a doubt, boom! You’re in action.
And guess what that
action will produce, your action will produce result, which means somebody buys
a product or somebody joins the business that destroys the doubt. Because how
can you doubt yourself, if you're selling? How can you doubt yourself if you're
recruiting? How can you doubt your business if people are joining if people are
buying products, you know what I mean? So what you need to do is learn how to
condition yourself in order to overcome those things. And that's how you deal
with doubt.
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Yours
in success
Gediminas.
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