I want to talk about fear of rejection. Oh my goodness. For some people, it's
very tough because they're just scared to speak to people, they're scared to
speak to strangers, they're scared to speak to their friends, because they
might reject them, they might say no. And a lot of people are just scared of
this rejection. So let me give you a tip that hopefully will help you to
overcome this fear of rejection, to beat it. So how do we beat this fear of
Well, the only way to beat the fear of rejection is to detach yourself from the outcome. So let me tell you what I mean by that. Most of the time if you’re going to meet somebody face to face, one to one, maybe you go to an online meeting through zoom or through whatever, you have an expectation, you have an expectation that the end result of this meeting, the end result of this call will be this person joining your business, or this person buying your product or whatever it is. And because you have this expectation of this end result this outcome, then you start being scared of losing that.
So even though you actually haven't got it yet, like the person haven't joined you yet, they haven't bought anything from you, so you don't really have anything to lose, but you start being afraid of losing that chance. So in your head, if I asked them wrong, or if I say something wrong, or whatever, they will reject me, they'll say no to me, they will laugh at me and they go it's a really, really bad thing. So then you start being scared of that happening and then you do nothing, then you don't even take any action, you don't even approach that person, because that fear of rejection stops you.
So the only way to overcome that is to detach yourself from the outcome. So no longer to be thinking, “Oh, if they join is going to be so amazing or if they buy, oh my gosh, I'm going to get this money.” You need to detach yourself from the outcome and instead just focus on the actual activity. So I just need to ask five people a day to take a look at my business. That's all, so you detach yourself from the outcome, whether they say yes or no, doesn't make any difference in your heart rate. If they say yes, you don't go, “Oh my God, it’s so amazing.”
Because sometimes, even though if they say yes, they still going to be nothing and if they say no, you don't go, “Oh my gosh, I'm going to kill myself.” So bad. You don't do that either. Either way, whether they say yes or no, your heartbeat doesn't change because you detach yourself from the outcome. So if this yes cool, if they say no, absolutely fine because you got another 7 billion people to talk to, so you're not going to run out of people. And if some of them say no, totally fine. So that's the way to beat the fear of rejection.
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