Success Is A Way Of Life - Not A Destination

I wanted to talk about how not to get attacked on social media. As you start building your business, as you start building your project using social media, and the internet, you're likely to get some haters, you're likely to get attacked, you're likely to get negative comments, laughed at and all sorts. Now, how do you avoid that? How to avoid being attacked?



Well, somebody said very wisely, that if you don't want to be criticized, you should not be a business person; you should be an ice cream salesman. Or if you don't want to get criticized, say nothing, do nothing and be nothing. If you do those three things, you are guaranteed not to get attacked. But do you want to live a life where you do nothing, say nothing and are nothing? Of course not. You want to be somebody, you want to reach your goals, and you want to build something significant.

Well, if you want to build something significant, then you will get haters, big news. Check anybody out; any politician, any actor, any singer, any celebrity, any public figure out there, guess what you're going to find? You're going to find that they have haters; you're going to find that somebody's trying to trash them; you're going to find that somebody's talking behind their back and all sorts. It’s just a part of the journey.

If you don't want to get attacked or criticized then you're going to have to fly so low, you're going to have to do so little that nobody notices you. That's no fun. But if you start doing something significant, if you start doing something big, you will attract people who will be jealous, who will be mad at you, who will not like you, and it's normal. Not everybody is going to like you, not everybody is going to like me, and not everybody is going to like somebody else.

If right now, you don't have any haters, if right now you don't have anybody criticizing you, if right now nobody's writing negative comments, it simply shows that you're not playing big enough. It simply shows that you're not reaching enough people. It simply shows that you're surrounded yourself in your little bubble by your friends and family and friendly people who just patting on your back saying, “Good girl, good boy, keep going, we're supporting you.”

It simply shows that you're not playing big enough. When you start playing big enough, when you start reaching large enough amount of people, then you will find those who will love you. But you're also going to find those who will hate your guts, and it’s part of the journey, there's nothing you can do, you will never be able to do it the way that everybody loves you and everybody like you. No, you're always going to get some haters; you're always going to get some people who just their occupation is to hate on other people.

When you're a hammer, everything around you looks like a nail. So when somebody’s sole purpose being on social media is to hate on other people, is to troll is to criticize, then guess what? You're going to get criticized too, you're going to get your dose of criticism as well. It's just that's what they do for a living. That's what they do in their free time. They just go hating on other people. And if they happen to come across your profile, they'll hate on you too, it's okay. Don't worry about it.

Because what you are doing is not for that person. What you're doing is for those who like what you do, what you're doing is for those who need what you do. Those people who attack you, or criticize you or hate on you, you're not doing it for them anyway. You're not creating the video or the post or whatever you do for that person, that person is not your customer, that person is not your team member and will never be. It's not the same way for you and for them; they're going one way and you're going another way so stop worrying about it, stop losing sleep over it and just accept that's part of a deal. If you have the opportunity, just go block and that's it! So they don't see any of your posts anymore and it’s easier for you to too.



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Yours in success

Gediminas.