Dabbler-Try’er vs Doer-Commit’er

Posted by Gediminas Grinevicius on Thursday, December 26, 2019 Under: Personal Development

Are you not getting results in business? I will tell you one secret that might just change your mind.

Some people don't get results in business right away, which is actually most people, but there's a big difference between two groups of people. There is one group of people that come into network marketing, that come into home based business and they are the dabblers or the try’ers, they say, “Well, I will try this business.” So they come into the business and they say, “Well, I'll try it. I'll give it three months, I'll dabble a bit.” And most of the time, it doesn't work out for those people. Most of the time, they won't get the results not because the business doesn't work, not because the product doesn't sell, not because people don't join the business, it's simply because of their attitude, they are actually radiating that energy to people where I'm trying. Because what does it mean to try?

The best example I’ve ever seen is where I give somebody a pen and I say, “Well, try and drop this pen, try and drop it.” And person takes it first and drops it. I go, “No, no, no, no, you dropped it. Don't drop it. Try and drop it.” So then they are holding the pen, they’re not dropping it. So I'm saying, “Well, now you’re  not dropping it. So try to drop the pen.” How can you try to drop the pen? Can you try to drop the pen? No, you either drop it or you don't. You can't try to drop the pen. So how are you going to try a network marketing business?

What it means to me, that I'm not going to do it or I'm going to quit, I just don't know when, that's what try means. So if you came into network marketing with the idea that I'm going to give it a go, that I'm going to try, I'm going to see what happens, then you’re already setting yourself up for failure because you haven't committed, you haven't made a decision. In the old days, when they used to conquer an island, they would come with the boats and they would burn the boats. Why on earth would they do that? So that they either conquer the island or they die trying, but there's no going back. There's no abort.

That's what my
favorite animal is a rhino because when rhino makes the decision to charge, it does not abort, it'll go all the way.  So the first group of people are dabblers. They come in to try, they’re playing hockey pokey, one foot in and one foot out. It’s just not going to happen for them.

The second group are the doers, are the committers. So the people who have come in and they're committed, they go, “Well, whatever amount of time it's going to take me, I'm just going to do it.” Because if you come with a mindset, Oh, give it three months, or give it six months, then you're limiting yourself. You're setting yourself up for disappointment and for failure. What if it does take three years? What if it does take five years for you to achieve financial freedom with network marketing?

My question to you is, if not this, then what? If not network marketing, then what are you going to use to make 5000 a month, 10,000 a month, 20,000 a month? What else can you do to make that type of money? Tell me because I don't know. I don't know what you could do to make that type of money. And even if you could get to that type of money in a job, which is really unlikely, once you got to that income, is there a chance that you can become a CEO of a company or you can become a director of the company and once you got to 5000 a month, 10,000 a month you could come to the company and say, “You know what, guys, I'm just going to relax now, but you keep paying me the money.” Is that even possible? Like go to your workplace and go, “Well, how could I get to the top level income in this job, in this company and then retire and you guys just keep paying me full time income?” They’ll think you insane, they’ll think you lost it, they’ll think that cheese has slid of your cracker, but in network marketing, that's what you building, you’re you building a source of passive income.

So once you've built it to 1000 to 2000 to 5000 a month, to 10,000 a month, to 50,000 a month, you can take your foot off the gas, you can put it into a cruise control and your business keeps paying you the money because you've built it up, because you've built up the business, because you’ve built up the team, it keeps paying you. What other option do you have to make that type of income in this way? Let me know because I don't know of one. So the question, if not this, then what?

So when you have your bad days, when you’re either feeling disappointed, when you are feeling frustrated that you haven't achieved your results, and look, I level would you. If you ever feel the feeling that I'm not where I was hoping to be in my life at this time, I haven't made as much progress as I would have hoped to make in my life, I'm not yet making the money that I was hoping that I would make in my life. I know what you're feeling. I level with you. I've been there too. I know it and it sucks, but you have to remind yourself then, “Well, if not this, then what am I going to use to build financial freedom?” Are you going to buy a franchise for 200,000 pounds, 500,000 pounds, a million pounds, I don't know, maybe you've got some rich parents, some inheritance coming in.

Are you going to write the next Harry Potter or become the next superstar model or actor? What is your plan? If not this, then what? Are you going to go back to working for seven pounds an hour, 10 pounds an hour for them of your life and you want to tell me you'll be happy doing that for the rest of their life? I don't think so because like Les Brown says, “Once your mind expands, it can never go back to its original dimension.” 
So once you've seen the potential of network marketing, once you seen the potential of being an entrepreneur, there's no freaking way you can go back to work for 10 pounds an hour and be happy for the rest of your life.

You need to understand this, you need to think about this and when you have somebody else in your business going through those tough days or tough weeks, or sometimes even tough months, you just need to remind them, if not this, then what? What man, you said you have these dreams, you said you want to get your Aston Martin, you said you want to get your yacht, you said you want to travel the world, you said you want to buy that house? How are you going to do it in other way? How are you going to get to that type of income in any other way and have the freedom to do those things that you wanted to do? So that's the message for today, are you a try’er and a dabbler or are you a doer and a committer? Are you a person that commits to it and says, “Hey, I'll give it 12 months but if it doesn't work out in 12 months, I'll give it another 12 months and then another 12 months, I'll give it until I get the results.” Because you have to wrap your brain around it, you have to wrap your brain around it.

There’s a guy who now makes over $2 million a year network marketing and the first 450 people said no to him, the first 450 people that he spoke to said no. How many of you would go for 450 no's without a single yes and still keep going, he did, now he's making two million a year. Was it worth it? I think it was. There's a lady that's been in network marketing for 17 years and in 17 years she made $3,000, not every month, in the whole of 17 years she made $3,000. A lot of you would like, that’s actually minus because the amount it costs to buy products and to go to events, definitely she lost a lot of money. After 17 years, she became a million dollar earner and now she's making million dollars a year.

If you keep doing your job that you're doing, is there any chance that after 17 years in your job, whether you're a teacher, whether you are a nurse, whether you're whatever you do, is there any chance that you could do your job for 17 years and then they start paying you million dollars a year? But imagine if she quit at year 15, she could have said, “Oh my gosh, wasted 15 years of my life on this business, never worked out.” But because she kept going, because she kept sticking to it, now she's a million dollar earner. I don't know how long is going to take for you, maybe for you going to be three months, maybe for you going to be six months, maybe a year, maybe two, maybe three, maybe five, but if not this, then what? What else you're going to do to make 50,000 a month, what else you going to do to drive a Ferrari, what else you're going to do to buy that 15,000 square foot house, what else you going to do to travel the world? I don't know, get a job? I can't see that working out that well. So that's my message for today.

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Yours in success


In : Personal Development 

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