Today I wanted to talk about Be Do Have. What does it mean? What does it
So a lot of people make a mistake of doing things backwards. You know, they say things like, “Well, when I have a million dollars in my bank account, then I'm going to be happy.” Or “When I buy this car, then I'm going to be satisfied.” Or “When this happens, that I'm going to be wealthy or rich or satisfied or happy or content or whatever.” So when this happens, then I'm going to be happy. When this happens, then I'm going to do this. When this happens then I'm going to do that. But the problem is that it doesn't work that way.
If you think for example of money, about 70% of lottery winners are bankrupt three to five years after winning the lottery. Isn't it interesting? So they got the money. So what else is missing? Why do they go bankrupt? They made the money, they got the money, and so what's the problem? It’s because they got it backwards. They had it and then but they were not. So what does that mean? And also 78% of NFL players, sports people also go broke, like two years after finishing the sports career. So in order for you to have, you first have to be.
So it's not when I get a million, then I'm going to be happy. Actually, it's when I'm happy, I’m going to make a million, you get what I'm saying? So what you have to ask yourself instead of how can I get it? How can I get that money? How can I get that rank? How can I get that team member? How can I get that leader? How can I get that car? How can I get the relationship I want? How can I get all of that? Instead, you should be asking? How can I be the person who makes that type of money? How can I be the type of husband or the type of wife? How can I be the type of leader that attracts the right people to me, you get what I'm saying. So a lot of people their formula is have and then be. So have and then be, when I have this, then I’ll be happy, when I have this then I’ll be satisfied.
But it's actually the way around. It's Be Do Have. When you are, when you change your being; who you are, when you change your mind-set, when you change the way you act, then you do things and then you get the results. So you be do have. So first of all you have to become and that's why personal development; reading books, watching videos, attending seminars, attending training is so important, because that changes your being. Like Jim Rowan used to say, make a goal to become a millionaire, not for the money.
But for what it makes of you to become one. Because you'll have to become a different person to make a million, wouldn't you, you'd have to become a different person to build the business of your dreams, you'd have to become a different person to build that huge organization, and so on and so on. Just about you being somebody and the only way that you change your being how you are, is by investing in yourself self, is by educating yourself. It's about associating with the right people. So again, who are you spending your time with? Are you spending your time with people who are already where you want to be? Or are you spending your time with other broke people, other people who've never achieved anything in their life, because again, that's going to change who you are, they say you’re the average of five people that you spend your most time around with.
So that's the formula guys. It's be do have, change who you are, then do what has to be done and then you're going to have the things that you want to have not other way around. You can’t go stove, give me some heat and then I'll put some wood in it. You can’t go God give me a great harvest and then I’ll sow some seeds next year. It doesn't work that way. You have to do the things you have to do, you have to become who you have to become before you make the money, before you become a successful leader, before you build an organization of hundreds of thousands of people before, before, before, before, you get it.
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