I wanted to talk to you about F.O.L.B. Are you affected by F.O.L.B? What is
F.O.L.B? F.O.L.B stands for Fear Of Looking Bad.
And a lot of people are stopped by that, in business, they afraid of reaching out to other people, they're afraid of sharing the business opportunity, they're afraid of sharing the products because they have the fear of looking bad. So if you have it, it’s going to stop your lot, like doing these videos, I could never do these videos if I have the fear of looking bad.
So if I was afraid, “Oh, how do I look like? Do I need to put some makeup on?” So it’d really stop me. It would be really limiting me. And if you think about it, people who achieved some of the biggest things in their life, they were not afraid to look bad. They were not afraid to be frowned upon, they were not afraid to be laughed at, they were not afraid to be ridiculed; they were not afraid not to be accepted. They just went on and did it anyway. So if you have the fear of looking bad, you need to think about it and deal with it on a deeper level.
Think about what will happen if you go on and ask somebody to take a look at your business or you go on and do a Facebook Live and somebody says, “Oh, you're an idiot.” In the comments. What does that do for you? How does that affect you? Does that break your leg? Does that cripple you? Does that whatever? No, it doesn't do anything. So if you get a hater, if you get somebody who laughs at you, if you get somebody who doesn't support you, so what, who cares?
Very often when I'm coaching people in business, I ask them, I say, “Well, when you go to be making big money in business, when you're going to be successful, driving your dream car, living in your dream house, have a team of thousands and thousands of people and you're super successful? Will you care what people think of you then? Will you care what people say about you then?” And most people go, “Oh, of course not because I'm successful, because I've made it, because I've proven myself.”
So why do you care about what they think about you now? Why would you care now? Is their opinions going to pay your bills, is somebody's opinion is going to help you to reach your goals? No, it doesn't really matter. So don't have that fear of looking bad because that just going to stop you, just going to prevent you and limit you on what you can do and how you can reach your full potential.
Instead, just have the mind-set of abundance, because on this planet, there is 7 billion people. So somebody is going to like you, it doesn't matter what your accent is, it doesn't matter what your eye color is, it doesn't matter what your skin color is, it doesn't matter what your hairstyle is, it doesn't matter which country you're from or whatever, there will be somebody who going to like your message, there will be somebody who going to like would you share it with them, there will be somebody who's going to appreciate you, there will be somebody who will encourage you and want to join your business and want to buy products from you, and so on and so on and so on.
So instead of focusing on what bad things could happen, what if this happens, instead of think of what good things could happen -- I like Mark Twain's quote, which says something like there were thousands and thousands of things that I was afraid of in my life, most of which never happened. You know what I mean? Most of the things that you’re scared about is actually never going to happen. So don't worry about it and just use the Nike slogan, just do it. Just do it and see what happens, see what you get out of it, see who likes you and who supports you etcetera. Just share your message share whatever you want to share with people because that is much more important.
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